by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 25/02/25 | Blog
I’m not suggesting you need to turn into a bitch. Or that everyone’s attracted to bitchy people. I’m saying that in the grand scale of things, someone being at least a bit more self-interested is way more magnetic than being a people-pleaser. Somewhere along the way...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 21/02/25 | Blog
You’re so caring! They’re an idiot for not wanting you,’ say the friends who want to boost you up when you’re feeling rejected. It’s often said with love, and reassurance that you are worthy and that it’s not your fault that things ended. And it’s true – you are...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 14/02/25 | Blog
You have had such good intentions, but despite your efforts, it frustratingly never goes very well. You know the people you dated in the past didn’t meet your needs, and you repeatedly promised yourself you’d never go through that ever again, and yet it has kept on...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 24/09/24 | Blog
Most People Don’t Know They Have Complex PTSD Do you have complex PTSD? I was already working with a trauma practitioner when I found out I did. Once we’d gone through the initial assessment period I was told ‘you have complex PTSD as a result of your...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 22/07/24 | Blog
The Challenge of Maintaining Relationships as a High Achieving Trauma Survivor We need people. But when people have traumatised us, that often makes accessing deep connection more challenging. Even if we’ve hit the friends or partner(s) jackpot, trauma can mean we’re...
