by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 12/08/25 | Blog
If you feel insecure in your relationship, I want you to consider something radical: Maybe it’s not you. Maybe you’re not “too much.” Maybe you don’t have intimacy issues. Maybe you’re not overthinking, overanxious, or needy. Maybe you’re just in a relationship...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 08/08/25 | Blog
Somewhere along the line, you were taught that relationships are a battlefield. That love is a game of sacrifice. That if you’re not doing everything, you’re doing nothing. That if you’re not giving all of yourself, you’re somehow failing. But that’s not how...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 07/08/25 | Blog
If you’re tired… Not just physically tired, but soul-tired—the kind that builds up when you’ve been holding too much for too long—I want you to hear this: You’ve been doing your best. You’ve been pouring into your relationships, into life, into everyone else. Even...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 02/08/25 | Blog
“Just let it go.” “Stop overthinking it.” “Try to distract yourself.” “Maybe you just need meds.” “Move on.” These are the go-to responses we hear when our emotions won’t shut up. And let’s be clear—sometimes distraction, suppression, or medication can be...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 29/07/25 | Blog
Overgiving Feeds Insecure Attachment Overgiving is one of the most socially acceptable trauma responses out there. It looks generous. Kind. Thoughtful. But often, it’s not about love at all. It’s about fear. Fear that if you don’t constantly pour into the...
