by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 19/08/25 | Blog
Significant change in your relationship patterns isn’t all gain. It comes with very real loss. I’ve walked away from love before. Not because they were a bad person. Not because they didn’t care. But because staying would have required me to accept too little. And I...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 16/08/25 | Blog
If you keep reading my posts/emails and thinking “this sounds like me… I really need to do something about this…” but you never actually take the next step – This is your moment. You’re invited to register for my learn-at-home, pre-recorded Emotional Regulation...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 14/08/25 | Blog
Let’s get real. You want secure love. You want honest communication. You want to stop walking on eggshells. You want a relationship that doesn’t feel like a fight, a project, or a performance. You want to feel calm when things get hard. To know when to speak and when...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 12/08/25 | Blog
If you feel insecure in your relationship, I want you to consider something radical: Maybe it’s not you. Maybe you’re not “too much.” Maybe you don’t have intimacy issues. Maybe you’re not overthinking, overanxious, or needy. Maybe you’re just in a relationship...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 08/08/25 | Blog
Somewhere along the line, you were taught that relationships are a battlefield. That love is a game of sacrifice. That if you’re not doing everything, you’re doing nothing. That if you’re not giving all of yourself, you’re somehow failing. But that’s not how...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 07/08/25 | Blog
If you’re tired… Not just physically tired, but soul-tired—the kind that builds up when you’ve been holding too much for too long—I want you to hear this: You’ve been doing your best. You’ve been pouring into your relationships, into life, into everyone else. Even...
