“If I just prove I’m the dog’s bollocks, they’ll love me.”
—me, emotionally dehydrated, living off attention crumbs and false hope.
I used to think if I was calm enough, chill enough, sexy enough, non-needy enough, cool enough…
They’d wake up one day and be like, “Wow. They are The One.”
Plot twist: they didn’t.
Because they were emotionally unavailable and I was playing romantic Whac-a-Mole with my self-worth.
Every text I overanalysed.
Every boundary I “softened.”
Every need I shoved so far down it had to file a missing persons report.
All for what?
A “u up?” text at 11:42pm on a Tuesday?
Listen: You don’t earn love by shape-shifting into a sentient green flag.
You become a match for love by deciding you never had to prove sh*t in the first place.
That’s what we do inside Dream Relationship Blueprint.
You’ll stop chasing crumbs and start attracting connection that actually nourishes you.
Comment “ENOUGH” if you’re ready to be chosen by someone other than your own anxiety.