You’ve done therapy.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve watched enough TikToks about attachment styles to qualify for an honorary psych degree.
So why the f*ck are you still dating people who treat you like a backup charger?
Here’s the truth no one’s telling you:
💥 It’s not your standards.
💥 It’s not that you’re “too much.”
💥 And it’s definitely not just “bad luck.”
Your nervous system is running the show.
And if it thinks love = danger?
You’ll keep repeating the same chaotic connection patterns no matter how smart, spiritual, or emotionally literate you are.
It’s not your fault.
But it is your pattern.
The Relational Health Questionnaire is a no-fluff, no-BS way to finally find out:
— Where your connection habits are rooted in fear
— What your system thinks love should feel like (even if that’s constant anxiety)
— And why emotionally available people feel “meh” while the inconsistent ones give you a dopamine rush + a stomach ache
This isn’t one of those cute “What’s your attachment style?” questionnaires.
This is:
🔎 Deep nervous system tea
🎯 Insight that actually lands
💀 A mildly uncomfortable truth mirror you’ll probably thank me for later
Take it if:
- You’re tired of analysing your trauma on dates
- You want to stop attracting people who emotionally vanish like they’re training for the vanishing Olympics
- You’re ready to see the actual root of why love feels hard AF (and finally do something about it)
👇 Take the damn questionnaire.