You’re the chill one.
You’re “easy to date.”
You don’t ask for much. You don’t need much.
Except… you do.
You just won’t admit it.
Because you’d rather eat glass than risk being seen as “needy.”
Being low-maintenance isn’t a flex—it’s emotional self-abandonment in a cute outfit.
You’re out here giving people a stress-free experience while your needs are withering like a forgotten houseplant.
Then you’re shocked when you feel resentful, unseen, or a little bit dead inside.
It’s not a mystery. You ghosted yourself before they ever had to.
Wanna find out how your “cool girl” act is secretly draining the life out of your love life?
Click the button below and take the Relational Health Questionnaire so you can see where you’re people-pleasing yourself into emotional invisibility.