The books.
The boundaries.
The screenshots you send your friends to ask, “How do I say this without sounding crazy?”
Your dating life is a full-time unpaid internship.
And still… nothing changes.
Here’s why:
Strategy is just socially acceptable anxiety.
You think if you “do it right,” you’ll finally be safe.
But under every carefully-worded text is a panicked little gremlin whispering, “please love me and don’t leave.”
No judgement—we’ve all been there.
But strategy is exhausting, and spoiler alert: it doesn’t work when your nervous system is glitching harder than 2000’s WiFi.
If you’re done trying to Jedi-mind-trick your way into love…
Click the button below and take the Relational Health Questionnaire so you can stop relying on scripts and start healing the sh*t that’s actually running the show.