You deserve real, lasting love. The kind that feels safe, mutual, and deeply fulfilling. Wanting that doesn’t make you needy, broken, or behind. It makes you human.
I’ve been to more weddings than I can count over the past decade, and most of the time on my own, my only plus-one being my much younger brother once. I’ve sat through speeches, slow dances, and bouquet tosses wondering when it would be my turn. Not because being single is a failure, but because I longed for connection – to share both the big moments and the quiet ones with someone who truly sees me.
If you feel that too, you’re not alone.
It’s not that love has passed you by. It’s that your experiences have shaped how you relate to others and those patterns can be changed. Not through shame or pressure, but through compassion and permanent, gentle healing.
Imagine learning why your relationships have felt the way they have. Imagine recognising patterns that once felt like fate and realising you can choose something different.
Healthy, long-term love isn’t a fantasy. It’s a result of healing the emotional conditioning that taught you to settle, overgive, or expect too little. Once you understand how your past shaped your expectations, it becomes possible to rewrite your future.
It’s okay to be scared of starting again. But don’t let fear keep you lonely. Don’t let old wounds tell you that love isn’t possible for you.
Because it is.
If you’re ready to explore what’s been holding you back and how to move forward with confidence, I’d love to hear from you. You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
Get in touch, I’m here when you’re ready.