by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 19/08/25 | Blog
Significant change in your relationship patterns isn’t all gain. It comes with very real loss. I’ve walked away from love before. Not because they were a bad person. Not because they didn’t care. But because staying would have required me to accept too little. And I...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 16/08/25 | Blog
If you keep reading my posts/emails and thinking “this sounds like me… I really need to do something about this…” but you never actually take the next step – This is your moment. You’re invited to register for my learn-at-home, pre-recorded Emotional Regulation...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 14/08/25 | Blog
Let’s get real. You want secure love. You want honest communication. You want to stop walking on eggshells. You want a relationship that doesn’t feel like a fight, a project, or a performance. You want to feel calm when things get hard. To know when to speak and when...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 12/08/25 | Blog
If you feel insecure in your relationship, I want you to consider something radical: Maybe it’s not you. Maybe you’re not “too much.” Maybe you don’t have intimacy issues. Maybe you’re not overthinking, overanxious, or needy. Maybe you’re just in a relationship...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 08/08/25 | Blog
Somewhere along the line, you were taught that relationships are a battlefield. That love is a game of sacrifice. That if you’re not doing everything, you’re doing nothing. That if you’re not giving all of yourself, you’re somehow failing. But that’s not how...