by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 19/07/25 | Blog
If you want healthier, happier, more secure relationships… It has very little to do with getting the other person to see your point of view. Or to finally admit they were in the wrong. Or to commit to changing the dynamic. You can’t make a different cake with the same...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 17/07/25 | Blog
For years, I thought I was just bad at relationships. Romantic. Family. Friendships. Didn’t matter. They were messy. Painful. Dysfunctional. And I was the common denominator. I felt like a failure. Like something was deeply wrong with me. Because surely, if I was...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 15/07/25 | Blog
The first time, I was 10. The second time, it happened repeatedly in my teens with an abusive ex. The third time, I was in my 20s. I don’t do this work because it’s an “area of interest.” I do this work because I was fucked up by other people – and I know what...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 12/07/25 | Blog
There’s a quiet fear I hear from a lot of people: “If I start healing… will I have to cut everyone off?” It’s not that they don’t want to get better. It’s that they don’t want to lose the people they still love—even if those relationships are challenging, complicated,...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 10/07/25 | Blog
You Don’t Have to Go No Contact Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get said enough in the healing world: You don’t have to go no contact. Sometimes you see people share their healing journey and it ends with cutting off parents, siblings, or childhood friends....
