by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 17/05/25 | Blog
You don’t have to be a “bitch.” But let’s be honest, being a people-pleaser hasn’t exactly paid off, has it? Somewhere along the line, you learned that keeping others happy was the key to staying safe. That saying “yes” and staying quiet would help you avoid conflict,...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 15/05/25 | Blog
You deserve real, lasting love. The kind that feels safe, mutual, and deeply fulfilling. Wanting that doesn’t make you needy, broken, or behind. It makes you human. I’ve been to more weddings than I can count over the past decade, and most of the time on my own, my...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 13/05/25 | Blog
There comes a point when you have to admit: what used to work just isn’t cutting it anymore. Life changes. You change. And sometimes, the coping mechanisms that once got you through are now just adding to the chaos – or doing absolutely nothing. Maybe you’re...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 10/05/25 | Blog
You don’t need more insight. You don’t need another “trauma bonding explained” video. You don’t need to decode one more avoidant’s texting behavior like it’s a sacred scroll. You already KNOW. You’re painfully self-aware. You could teach a masterclass called “Why I...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 08/05/25 | Blog
“If I just prove I’m the dog’s bollocks, they’ll love me.” —me, emotionally dehydrated, living off attention crumbs and false hope. I used to think if I was calm enough, chill enough, sexy enough, non-needy enough, cool enough… They’d wake up one day and be like,...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 06/05/25 | Blog
You keep saying: “They never text back.” “They shut down emotionally.” “They’re allergic to intimacy and probably hugs.” Okay. Valid. BUT ALSO… your anxious little inner child is out here clinging like a koala on espresso. Let’s be real: You’re not calm either. You’re...
