by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 03/05/25 | Blog
Ah yes, forgiveness. The spiritual flex everyone tells you to do when you’re clearly still emotionally constipated from your last situationship. You journal. You sage your f*cking living room. You say, “I know they were doing their best,” while your left eye twitches...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 01/05/25 | Blog
You’re out here trying to project manage your love life like it’s a Google spreadsheet. “If we just have a calm convo about this at 7:15pm with an I-statement, I’m sure it’ll fix everything.” LOL no. Your relationship isn’t a TED Talk. It’s a chaotic nervous...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 29/04/25 | Blog
The books. The boundaries. The screenshots you send your friends to ask, “How do I say this without sounding crazy?” Your dating life is a full-time unpaid internship. And still… nothing changes. Here’s why: Strategy is just socially acceptable anxiety. You think if...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 26/04/25 | Blog
If your dating history looks like a graveyard of ghosters, slow-faders, and emotionally stunted exes… It might not just be “bad luck.” Hot take: Your hyper-independence is basically a neon sign that says “I won’t need sh*t from you emotionally!” And avoidant people...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 24/04/25 | Blog
You’re the chill one. You’re “easy to date.” You don’t ask for much. You don’t need much. Except… you do. You just won’t admit it. Because you’d rather eat glass than risk being seen as “needy.” Being low-maintenance isn’t a flex—it’s emotional self-abandonment in a...
by Harris Eddie Hill (they/them) | 22/04/25 | Blog
You’re always giving. You show up. You hold space. You’re the emotional IKEA of relationships—convenient, reliable, and always fixing sh*t. And what do you get in return? Crumbs. Vibes. “I’m just going through a lot right now” texts. Because being selfless isn’t...
